Eleanor Jane Diethelm

Eleanor Diethelm, a devoted social worker and compassionate advocate for those in crisis, passed away on September 17, 2025, in Boston, Massachusetts. She was 88 years old. She had a tragic automobile accident that left her with a serious spinal cord injury and paralysis, which ultimately led to her death.

Born on April 27, 1937, in Springfield, Massachusetts, Eleanor was the daughter of Charles and Celia Vose. She graduated from Cathedral High School in Springfield and pursued higher education with unwavering dedication. She earned her bachelor’s degree from The Elms College in Springfield, followed by a master’s degree in education from Bridgewater State College. At 58 years old, she earned a Second master’s degree in social work from Boston University.

Eleanor’s professional life was defined by her tireless commitment to helping others. As a full-time social worker at the Brockton Neighborhood Health Center, she worked up until the day before she passed- an enduring testament to her passion and resilience. Her specialty as a suicide crisis therapist placed her at the heart of some of the most difficult and sensitive situations imaginable. She approached each case with unwavering kindness, deep respect, and an open heart. She also led an art therapy group for years and was an artist herself.

Her work extended beyond clinic walls; Eleanor served for many years on the crisis response team for the Red Cross. Whether responding to emergencies or mentoring fellow social workers, she left an indelible mark on all who had the privilege of working alongside her or receiving her care. Her legacy is one of empathy, strength, and profound humanity. The city of Brockton honored her in 2018 with the Excellence in Human Services Award.

Eleanor’s spiritual journey reflected her inclusive worldview. Raised in the Catholic faith, she later converted to Judaism while always embracing people of all beliefs with warmth and acceptance.

She is lovingly remembered by her sister Carolyn Scibelli; her daughter Kathleen Rogers & son-in-law George Rogers; her sons John Diethelm & Michael Diethelm; daughter-in-law Phillis Diethelm; grandchildren Jessica Crowley, Alexandra Hennessey, Jesse McCarthy, Carl Diethelm, Leta Diethelm, Daniel Diethelm & Nolan Diethelm; great-grandchildren Keegan, Kiley & Jack Crowley; Calvin & Tyler Hennessey; nieces and nephew Teri Blum, Anthony Scibelli, Alexandra Anderson & Angela MacDonnell as well as 36 cousins from the Diethelm side.

Eleanor was predeceased by her parents, Charles and Celia Vose; her former husband of many years, Daniel Diethelm; and brother-in-law Anthony Scibelli.

A woman of remarkable strength and compassion, Eleanor dedicated her life to lifting others during their darkest moments. Her memory will continue to inspire those who knew her- and those whose lives were changed because of her care.

Eleanor’s unwavering love and dedication to her family were evident in every aspect of her life. She was a constant presence, showing up without hesitation, no matter the circumstances. From the 3 am birth of her first great-grandson to school graduations and singing songs around the table at holidays, Eleanor never missed a moment worth celebrating. Her warmth extended beyond her immediate family, embracing friends and loved ones with open arms and a heart as generous as it was kind.

To know Eleanor was to be loved like family. May her memory be a blessing to all who were touched by her presence.

A private service will be held at her request with her family. If you are interested in donating in her memory, her family would appreciate donations being made to the Massachusetts Coalition for Suicide Prevention at https://www.mscpnow.com